Female Orgasm Podcast by The Welcomed Consensus

Episode 9 - Experiencing the Optimum Amount of Sensation During Sensual Experiences

This is Part 2 of Chrystal Bougon's interview with two instructors, Rachael and Francoise, from the Welcomed Consensus in a live interview on Better Sex Radio, titled "You've Have Heard of the G-spot, Now You Will Learn About the Thunkspot". Listen in as they discuss some things about the female anatomy and nerves of the clitoris you may not know, what a female orgasm feels like, how to experience the optimum amount of sensation during any sensual experience, and more. Here are some excerpts: Francoise: ...the fun part about it is that with Deliberate Orgasm and using the manual stimulation of the clitoris, the glans have the 8000 pressure sensitive nerve endings. So through stimulating the clitoris and having both people having their attention on the person receiving the pleasure then it is so fun for a woman to feel where that sensation can expand in her body. Most people don’t even know that the clitoris engorges and that it engorges not only in outside, but inside of the body. Chrystal: Oh yeah, we have lots and lots of blood flow to the pelvic region not just to the clitoris. Francoise: The beauty of it that both people can relax, they know that with that many pressure sensitive nerve endings, the orgasm is going to get created and they just focus their attention of what is happening in the moment, the present moment, and feel, and women often discover new sensation, they discover slowing how intricate their clitoris is and how easy it actually is to have an orgasm once they can have this kind of relaxation. One of the main things about orgasm is that to this day there is still a lot of focus on the kind of orgasm Master’s and Johnson described in 1966 in which the orgasm is oriented around the release of the sexual tension. In Deliberate Orgasm, that is not the goal. The goal is basically the pleasure you are experiencing in the moment, and doing so you can experience quite and array of sensual pleasure and sensation that otherwise you might not even have paid attention to. The complete transcript for Episode 9 can be viewed at welcomed.com http://www.welcomed.com/podcasts/WCFO_009_details.html

Episode 8 - Creating Female Orgasm, Every Time and Anytime

Chrystal Bougon speaks with two instructors of the Welcomed Consensus in a live interview on Better Sex Radio titled " How to Have a 1 Minute Orgasm, a 3 Minute Orgasm and a 1 Hour Orgasm" Listen to Chrystal as she finds out more details about what makes Deliberate Orgasm deliberate, how "date" night will never be the same, and how anyone can reliably create orgasm in a woman's body, every time and anytime. Here are some excerpts:

Chrystal: Every time and anytime, now that is very intriguing because we know there is lots of woman out there that have issues with having orgasm on a regular basis. Have some dysfunction around it, or just can’t focus enough to have one. So how to we get to this point where we get one every time? How do we get reliable like that?Francoise: The clitoris having the highest concentration of nerve endings and when both people have their attention who is

receiving the pleasure and the woman herself can keep her attention on her body, she can relax, she doesn’t have to think and wonder, am I going to have to return anything, am I going to have to do anything. So she can focus on her own body, she can relax. Chrystal: So part of it really is just saying “Look, I’m taking this time, this hour and I am just committing myself to this wholly and it is my turn to receive pleasure. That’s a big one, That’s a hard thing for women to do. Francoise: It really is a fun thing to do. Because from there, by focusing her attention on her genitals, on her clitoris, on the point of contact of the finger on her clitoris, she can start discovering things about her own body. Communicating with her partner and having fun and building from there. We believe that every orgasm is built one stroke at a time. The complete transcript for Episode 8 can be viewed at welcomed.com http://www.welcomed.com/podcasts/WCFO_008_details.html

Episode 7 - Deliberate Orgasm: Creating Pleasurable Relationships Part 2

Today you will hear Part 2 of our excerpts from an interview with David and Becca, who have enjoyed Deliberate Orgasm as part of their sex life for over 10 years. This interview was conducted in a question answer format.  They did not know the questions in advance. They only knew that the topic would be about Deliberate Orgasm, and documented as part of the ongoing sensual research of the Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com. They agreed to allow parts of the interview to be published in this podcast in the interest of informing people who are new to these ideas. They will be describing how Deliberate Orgasm had affected their lives from the first time they heard about it until now. Here are some excerpts: Terry: Do you communicate during DO Dates, and what do you communicate about? Becca: Yes, we communicate during DO dates.  Mainly about what we’re feeling and experiencing together, and it can be sometimes we’ll notice that we’re experiencing something the same, like I’ll say “Wow, that feels like there is waves,” and he’ll say “you know, I felt something like that too.”  Or he’ll say it feels like a jelly fish, and I’ll say I know exactly what you’re talking about.  And sometimes it’s one of those things, where he’ll say I know it sounds strange to say a jellyfish, and I’ll say I know what you mean because it feels like it’s glomming on, there’s waves, and it’s fun to you know come up with the words for the new experiences that we’re having.  So mainly that’s what we talk about, though there are times when I’ll have a random thought that comes by, okay, I just have to tell you I left the turkey in the oven and I started to worry about that – and he’ll say okay, now I know what that was, or he’ll ask me like you know, it feels like you’re thinking about something, and so I can tell him, or he’ll say what he notices and I’ll say what I notice too, with both of our attention on the one person’s body. David: She said a lot there, and it really is, comes down to what I notice, and what I’m going to be willing to say.   There are times when there are just so many changes going on and so many sensations coming up, you know, this stroke, I feel these waves coming up my arms.  And when I say that, she gives me reality about it.  She’s in agreement with that, and it’s like okay good, I can feel that, it gives me reality.  And it also gives us the next place to step off from, you know the next date.  Then there are times when I notice she may have a random thought like she said and go away – and I’ll say did you go away, and she’ll say yes and come back.  It just comes down to individual strokes and what we’re feeling in the present moment.  And stay really present with her – it’s really fun, yeah, absolutely.  The complete transcript for Episode 7 can be viewed at welcomed.com http://www.welcomed.com/podcasts/WCFO_007_details.html

Episode 6 - What a 3 Hour Orgasm Sounds Like

Listen to an unedited 3 minute excerpt of the 3 hour orgasm. The sound you are about to hear was recorded during the second hour. The 3 Hour Orgasm happened on May 22, 2009 with the Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com. Enjoy.

Episode 5 - Deliberate Orgasm:Creating Pleasurable Relationships Part 1

Today you’ll hear excerpts from an interview with Becca and David who have enjoyed Deliberate Orgasm as part of their sex life for over 10 years. This interview was conducted in a question and answer format, they did not know the questions in advance. They only knew that the topic would be about Deliberate Orgasm, and documented as part of the ongoing sensual research of The Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com. They agreed to allow parts of the interview to be published in this podcast in the interest of informing people who are new to these ideas. They will be describing how Deliberate Orgasm has affected their lives, from the first time they heard about it until now.

 

Here are some excerpts:

David: How has my sex life changed since adding on DOing – that’s a big question. I think that it’s changed me as a man, it’s changed me in the way that I can notice. It’s changed me in being able to be a friend to a woman. It’s changed me in my ability to feel and recognize that the truth is in my body when I’m feeling her orgasm in my body. There’s just so many things that go on, it’s not like a head thing – it becomes integrated, so it’s like that, and it’s going to continue to expand, there’s no limit to it, it will always expand if I’m willing to go in that direction.

Becca: My sex life has changed a lot in that I feel gratified, I feel gratified as just a base level of where I start from with anything. I used to feel more like I didn’t have enough of anything, and I would always come into any sex act or any relationship where there was a possible sex act like that – like “I do not have enough and how am I going to figure out how to get enough of what I want,”... It’s just such a difference because now I’m having all the orgasm that I want, it’s never a problem to have all of the orgasm that I want.

The complete transcript for Episode 5 can be viewed at welcomed.com

Episode 4 - One Hour Orgasm: We Saw it, a Male and Female Perspective

Terry talks with Daisy and Cedric who attended the same one hour orgasm demonstration. From their perspectives, one female and the other male, each tells what it is like to witness a Deliberate Orgasm that lasts for one hour, explains what they experienced and felt, and addresses how attending the course impacted their sensuality and their sex life. The one hour orgasm demonstration is open to singles and couples and is available in two ways; as an independent course or as part of a Sensuality Retreat both offered by The Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com. They are most famous for teaching about Deliberate Orgasm or DO, which uses female orgasm as the model of orgasm to reveal what is available for both men and woman to experience.

 

Here are some excerpts:

Cedric: Well first of all for me, I mean, that this even existed, that there was a place where I could go and see a woman in orgasm for one hour, and it was interactive...That’s what really stands out, having it right in front of me and having it be open to ask questions and to just get a close look at what was going on.

Daisy: This is an opportunity for you to see as an outsider, two people relating over their pleasure and utilizing tools of slowing down and feeling and noticing one another, paying that much attention to one another to produce that kind of pleasure and orgasm that lasts an hour.

Cedric: You have a woman in you life, this is what every guy has been looking for - the viewpoints, what they talk about and then the actual practicality of DOing, it’s something that you can put into you life.

The complete transcript for Episode 4 can be viewed at welcomed.com

Episode 3 - One Hour Orgasm: An Educational Demonstration

Terry talks with the The Welcomed Consensus (www.welcomed.com) about their one hour orgasm demonstration course. Why do they do it? What is it, really? What can you learn from it? And how can you see a demonstration of a woman experiencing a one hour orgasm yourself? Sensuality instructors, Sheri and Wendy, answer these questions and more.

Sheri and Wendy are both instructors of the Welcomed Consensus, internationally known sensuality educators. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm or DOing, a technique for producing continuous orgasm. Discover how Deliberate Orgasm led to Sheri and Wendy's desire for teaching and researching female orgasm and how it relates to their one hour orgasm demonstration.

Here are some excerpts:

Terry: I was first curious to find out, what inspired you to offer a course called Observation of Intense Coming?

Sheri: ...I was first introduced to the Deliberate Orgasm technique almost 25 years ago. I had a fun, a very fun, sex life beforehand, but when I first got DOne, and I experienced this particular kind of orgasm in my body, you know the deliberateness, having the kind of attention that RJ put on me, and the orgasm he created in my body, it really it blew my mind.

And I know Wendy felt the same way when she had her first DO date, and we had DOing become an integral part of our daily life. I was experiencing sensations in my body that I never knew was possible. Also through DOing, our level of communication and intimacy went way up. We had this new discovery of female orgasm, and we began researching it and became more and more curious about what is possible here. And then at one point it just spilled over to our desire to want to teach, to share with other people the experiences we were having, and share the beauty and the potential of female orgasm.

The complete transcript for Episode 3 can be viewed at welcomed.com

Episode 2 - Deliberate Orgasm: Learning How, from Basics to Mastery

The Welcomed Consensus is interviewed by Dr.Patti Taylor - How are everyday people going to learn, what some people have spent a lifetime perfecting behind bedroom doors? You would be surprised by just how much unique and detailed information about their profound teachings are in this episode. Listen to two instructors talk about their own sensuality and experiences. Francoise and Susan answer questions giving listeners, both male and female, information about Deliberate Orgasm, Learning How, from Basics to Mastery.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Françoise and Susan, instructors of The Welcomed Consensus, internationally known sensual educators. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or DO, a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. Find out more about the Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com. Discover what’s in it for men to get involved in the practice of DOing, why their orgasms may also get better. Find out how to communicate during a DO date. Find out some of the ladies’ favorite DVDs...it goes beyond the fact that one was the star!

Here are some excerpts:

Francoise: Everyday you could decide first thing in the morning, whenever you get up, that you are going to have a DO date. And there you go; you start your day with pleasure in your life. It has quite a big influence on people's day and the way that they relate with each other.

Francoise: They feel that they can produce this great orgasm in their women’s body.

Susan: Yeah, that’s right and he feels successful. I mean he has a woman that is gratified and happy. And she is filled up with orgasm and he is winning with her. That’s what guys want, they want to feel that. They want to feel like they are succeeding and they are winning and giving their women what they want.

Francoise: Right and communicating with each other in a winning way only makes things more fun. And it’s really a simple tool to learn. It’s very easy to learn. And it’s just a question of deciding to use it.

Francoise: Well, we do a demonstration of a woman in orgasm for an hour, and we want to show what is possible and people, actually students get to watch her come for an hour.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Sometimes starting with a small chunk is easier to swallow. So, like you said, to have a small goal, is an easier and more achievable goal. So, if you are intimidated by having an hour long orgasm, or even a 15 minute orgasm, having a 3 minute orgasm, could lead to an hour orgasm. No one says you have to stop. The complete transcript for Episode 2 can be viewed at welcomed.com.

Episode 1 - Deliberate Orgasm:The Practice, the Pleasure, the Power

Dr. Patti Taylor talks with The Welcomed Consensus about how to feel more sensation, have better sex and more fun through exploring the potential of female orgasm. Listen to two instructors talk about their own sensuality and experiences. Francoise and Susan answer questions giving listeners, both male and female, information about Deliberate Orgasm, the practice, the pleasure, the power.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Françoise and Susan, instructors of The Welcomed Consensus www.welcomed.com, internationally known sensual educators. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or DO, a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. Find out more about the Welcomed Consensus... Learn what Deliberate Orgasm is. Why is this a “female model of orgasm"? What are some of the guiding principles of DOing? How has it changed the lives of people that learn this?

Here are some excerpts:

Dr. Patti Taylor: Our guests today are two women who have devoted many years to intense research and experience on these topics, Francoise and Susan.

Francoise: Orgasm is part of our life and what we do is we teach what we live and that's how we do our research. We actually live it and then see what we notice about it. That's the kind of thing that we put in our research and our teachings.

Susan: The female orgasm is the foundation of our sex life and our sensuality.

Francoise: Our main focus is on female orgasm and a while back, we all were very interested in finding out how to have more fun in our life and more fun from having better female orgasm. So we focused our research there.

Dr. Patti Taylor: Okay, you focused on the female, why is that?

Francoise: Most of the time, we've discovered that in researching and looking at the female orgasm, that there was actually a new kind of pleasure and new world that were available that will translate into the men's orgasm as well. So we decided to put our focus there and find out what would open up.

Francoise: We have found out that over the years, we can always come to deeper level of relaxation that will increase the sensation. You can experience it all over your body that way.

The complete transcript for Episode 1 can be viewed at welcomed.com